Marriage Matters
YOUR Marriage Matters to God
Marriage matters to God because it is His idea, designed with deep purpose from the very beginning. Here's why it's so important to Him:
- Marriage Reflects God's Covenant Love
Marriage is a living picture of God’s faithful, sacrificial love for His people. In Ephesians 5:25–32, Paul compares marriage to Christ’s relationship with the Church—Jesus gave Himself up for His bride. God designed marriage to reflect this unbreakable covenant, not just a contract. It's not just about happiness; it's about holiness and modeling divine love.
- Marriage Is a Foundation for Families and Society
In Genesis 2:24, God says, “A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” This "one flesh" union is the starting point for family, and family is where children are nurtured, values are taught, and faith is passed on. When marriage is honored, society is strengthened.
- Marriage Shows the Power of Unity and Purpose
God created man and woman to be partners—equal in value, distinct in role, united in purpose. Together, they’re called to steward creation, support one another, and glorify God. Marriage provides the environment for growth, refinement, forgiveness, and love—all of which reflect God's character.
In short, marriage matters to God because it’s sacred, it's powerful, and it points people back to Him. It’s not just about two people—it’s about God’s glory being revealed through a faithful, lifelong union.
Special Marriage Conference
This fall, join us in Estes Park for a “Weekend to Remember.” This is More than a conference, it’s a faith-based retreat designed to help couples choose oneness, whether your marriage needs rescue or simply renewal. A special financial incentive of $150 will be available for first time attendees which covers your registration fee. Another "Weekend to Remember" returns to the Broadmoor in Colorado Springs, in early 2026. Click HERE for more information including location, dates, registration, etc.
Marriage Care is our support strategy to help couples grow in their marriages. Check out each tab below to learn more.
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In the fall of 2025, new Journey Group will be launched specifically for married couples looking to make their marriage work in ways that God intended for this relationship to thrive. Join Nathan & Jenny Carlson who have been married for 43 years for a fun time using Kevin Thompson's Becoming Friends, Partners and Lovers guidebook.
Over the course of 12 weeks this guidebook will spark ideas, create conversations and hopefully facilitate healthy transformation in our marriages. The guidebook is FREE and couples will have their own guidebook. Each Journey Group will be limited to five couples and the facilitator will be a couple who has been attended our Marriage Mentors training. Click HERE for more details and to connect with the Carlsons.
Often times, couples at some point in their marriage ask the tough questions. "How can we make our marriage better?" They ask “Can my marriage be saved?” or “Why should we stay together? or "Since he/she won't change what should I do?" These are tough questions and are usually asked in crisis mode. This is when a Marriage Coach is needed because the reality is marriage is hard work and standing in one's own strength, there are no guarantees. With the expert guidance of Dr. John Zivojinovic, Grace Chapel is offering online [Zoom Video] Marriage Coach training starting on October 7, 2025 [6:30-7:30] for married couples who are mature in their faith and have been married a minimum of 10 years.
For over 38 years, John has assisted people on their journey toward change and transformation. He is a registered psychotherapist in Colorado. Quick to smile, John is easy to relate to, and clients are comfortable with him. As a clinician, John specializes in marriage coaching. John and his wife of over 40 years have 3 adult children, two sons-in-law, and two beautiful grandchildren.
If you and your spouse are interested in being a Marriage Coach, please contact Dr. John to let him know at
A Zoom link will be sent to you prior to the first session.
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Becoming a Great Marriage Coach |
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Focus |
Goal-oriented, future-focused |
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Approach |
Structured process using tools and frameworks |
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Role of the Coach |
Coach facilitates growth through questions and strategies |
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Training Required |
Often certified |
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Session Style |
Time-bound, agenda-driven |
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Common Tools |
Assessments, goal setting, communication models |
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Ideal for |
Couples seeking clarity, skills, or breakthrough |
Click HERE for Marriage Coach Application
Click HERE for Marriage Coach Covenant
The value of a Christian marriage mentor coming alongside another couple is profound and life-giving—it reflects God’s heart for discipleship, encouragement, and restoration. Here’s why it matters so much:
- They Offer Wisdom Rooted in Experience and Scripture
Marriage mentors have walked the road—through joys, trials, and seasons of growth. When they share their story and point couples to biblical truth, they become a living testimony of God’s faithfulness. Their words bring practical guidance and spiritual depth that books and seminars can’t replace.
- They Create Safe Space for Honesty and Growth
Sometimes, couples just need to know they’re not alone. A mentor couple can provide a safe, grace-filled space to talk about real struggles—communication, trust, intimacy, forgiveness—and help navigate them in light of God's Word. They bring hope when things feel heavy and clarity when things get confusing.
- They Model Godly Love, Forgiveness, and Commitment
Mentors don’t need to be perfect—they need to be real. When they humbly share how they’ve worked through hard seasons, forgave each other, or clung to Christ in weakness, they model the gospel. That example can strengthen a younger or struggling couple more than anything else.
With the expert guidance of Dr. John Zivojinovic, Grace Chapel is offering online [Zoom Video] Marriage Mentor training starting on October 9, 2025 [6:30-7:30 pm] for married couples who are mature in their faith and have been married a minimum of 10 years.
For over 38 years, John has assisted people on their journey toward change and transformation. He is a registered psychotherapist in Colorado. Quick to smile, John is easy to relate to, and clients are comfortable with him. As a clinician, John specializes in marriage coaching & mentoring. John and his wife of over 40 years have 3 adult children, two sons-in-law, and two beautiful grandchildren.
If you and your spouse are interested in being a Marriage Mentor, please contact Dr. John to let him know at
A Zoom link will be sent to you prior to the first session.
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Becoming a Great Marriage Mentor |
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Focus: Experience-based, relational support |
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Approach: Relational guidance through shared life experiences |
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Role of Mentor: Mentor shares personal stories and lessons |
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Training Required: Typically informal, based on life experience |
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Session Style: Flexible, conversational |
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Mentoring Tools: Testimonies, biblical wisdom, relational modeling |
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Ideal For : Couples seeking encouragement, wisdom, and long-term support |
Click HERE for Marriage Mentor Covenant